The free calm co-parenting app

Co-parenting is stressful.
We make it easier.

KidsFirst is a free co-parenting app with an AI Conflict Filter that rewrites hostile messages before they’re sent — plus a shared calendar, expense tracking, and document storage, all in one place.

$0 ALWAYS FREE
4.7/5
4.7 rating on App Store

Built by us, and you

Stop dreading the notification bell

You shouldn’t have to choose between your mental stress and coordinating care for your child. We remove the friction so you can focus on being a parent.

Text without the trigger

Our app acts as a shield, neutralising aggressive language instantly. You receive the logistics (pickup times, locations), not the insults.

One shared reality

Eliminate the "You never told me" arguments. Keep a single, undeniable record of every pickup, drop-off, and school event. If it’s on the calendar, it’s confirmed.

No more digging for documents

Stop searching through old texts and emails for school reports or vaccine records. Keep all shared files in one secure, organised library so you can find exactly what you need, right when you need it.

Money without the awkward talks

Stop fighting about who paid for what. Upload receipts, track expenses visibly, and settle debts without needing a face-to-face confrontation. Transparency creates trust.

About us

We are here to help manage the ongoing co-parenting matters for divorced or separated parents

Kids First

We make sure any agreement between you and your ex, and the solutions we offer, are putting your kids first.

Save Money

You will no longer need to spend as much on your family lawyers to manage ongoing co-parenting matters.

No Headaches

We work on your behalf to communicate with your ex in regards to anything about your kids. Avoid nasty messages and arguments. We will leave you peace of mind, allowing you to move on with your life.

WE GOT YOU

Free. Always.

Other apps charge $100–300 a year. We’ve been on the wrong side of those bills. KidsFirst will always be free for parents — because the families who need this most are often the ones already paying for lawyers, court fees, and a second home.

App Cost / parent / year Lived experience
KidsFirst $0
Industry leader A $149–$300
Industry leader B $77–$353
Industry leader C ~$108
Pricing as of 2026. Competitor names withheld out of respect — they do good work too.

No ads.

We won’t sell attention. Not yours, not your kids’.

No paywall.

Every feature, every parent, every day. Forever.

What parents say

I'm not as intimidated anymore when it comes to talking to my ex about my child. I used to dread reading messages from the other parent, knowing the words wouldn't be pleasant. But now, I feel a weight lifted off my shoulders. The messages don't affect my mood like they used to. I can actually focus on discussing what's best for our child without letting it get to me.
Alex - KidsFirst user

The free co-parenting app that takes out conflicts

Download, set up in five minutes, and feel the weight lift the next time you open your phone.

Start today. It's free.

No credit card. No trial. No catch.

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